Understanding Menopause and Mental Health
Menopause is a natural transition in a woman’s life, typically occurring between ages 45 and 55. While it’s often associated with physical symptoms, the emotional and mental health impacts can be equally significant. From anxiety to mood swings, and even rare cases of psychosis, the hormonal changes during menopause can profoundly affect a woman’s mental well-being. Are you struggling with anxiety and looking for support? At Pause and Co Healthcare, we understand that navigating life’s challenges can be overwhelming, especially during significant transitions like menopause.

Key Points:
– Menopause can trigger anxiety, mood swings, and irritability
– Hormonal fluctuations play a major role in emotional changes
– Symptoms can be managed with proper treatment and support
– Every woman’s experience is unique
– The menopausal transition can last several years
– Mental health symptoms can begin in perimenopause and continue into post menopause
Stages of Menopause:
- Perimenopause: The transitional phase leading up to menopause, typically lasting 4-8 years
- Menopause: Officially diagnosed after 12 months without a menstrual period
- Post menopause: The years following menopause, which can bring its own set of challenges
The Hormonal Landscape of Menopause:
– Oestrogen levels decline dramatically
– Progesterone production decreases
– Testosterone levels may also drop
– Follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and luteinising hormone (LH) levels increase

Anxiety During Menopause
Anxiety is a common companion during the menopausal journey. Many women experience increased worry, restlessness, and even panic attacks during this time. Understanding the link between menopause and anxiety can help in managing symptoms effectively.
Why Does Anxiety Increase?
– Fluctuating oestrogen levels affect mood-regulating neurotransmitters like serotonin and norepinephrine
– Physical symptoms like hot flushes can exacerbate anxiety
– Life changes and stress during this period can contribute to anxious feelings
– Sleep disturbances common in menopause can worsen anxiety symptoms
– Hormonal changes can affect the body’s stress response system
– Decreased oestrogen can impact the function of neurotransmitters that regulate mood and anxiety
Common Anxiety Symptoms:
– Excessive worry or fear
– Restlessness or feeling on edge
– Difficulty concentrating
– Sleep problems
– Physical symptoms like rapid heartbeat or sweating
– Muscle tension
– Digestive issues
– Feeling of impending doom
– Panic attacks
– Avoidance behaviours

Types of Anxiety Disorders More Common in Menopause:
- Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
- Panic Disorder
- Social Anxiety Disorder
- Specific Phobias
Managing Menopausal Anxiety:
– Practice relaxation techniques like deep breathing or progressive muscle relaxation
– Engage in regular physical exercise (aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate exercise per week)
– Maintain a balanced diet and limit caffeine and alcohol intake
– Consider cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT)
– Explore mindfulness meditation or mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR)
– Discuss medication options with your healthcare provider if symptoms are severe
– Try yoga or tai chi for mind-body balance
– Ensure adequate sleep and practice good sleep hygiene
– Consider herbal remedies like chamomile or lavender (always consult with a healthcare provider first as sometimes herbal medications can interfere
– Explore acupuncture or acupressure

Mood Swings: The Emotional Rollercoaster
Mood swings during menopause can feel intense and unpredictable. One moment you’re feeling fine, the next you’re upset or irritable. These rapid mood changes can be distressing for both the woman experiencing them and her loved ones.
What Causes Menopausal Mood Swings?
– Hormonal fluctuations disrupt emotional balance
– Sleep disturbances common in menopause can worsen mood
– Stress from other menopausal symptoms can impact emotions
– Changes in brain chemistry due to shifting hormone levels
– Life transitions often coinciding with menopause (e.g., children leaving home, caring for aging parents)
– Decreased serotonin production due to lower oestrogen levels
Recognising Mood Swings:
– Sudden shifts in mood without apparent cause
– Feeling overwhelmed by emotions
– Irritability or short temper
– Periods of sadness or weepiness
– Difficulty coping with stress
– Feeling more sensitive to criticism
– Experiencing heightened emotional responses to situations
– Rapid cycling between different emotions
– Feeling “out of control” emotionally
Coping Strategies for Mood Swings:
– Keep a mood diary to identify triggers and patterns
– Practice self-care and stress management techniques
– Maintain a regular sleep schedule
– Engage in activities you enjoy
– Communicate openly with family and friends about your experiences
– Consider joining a support group for menopausal women
– Use cognitive restructuring techniques to challenge negative thoughts
– Practice mindfulness to increase emotional awareness
– Explore creative outlets like art or music for emotional expression
– Consider hormone therapy under medical supervision
Menopausal Rage: When Anger Takes Over
While less discussed, many women experience intense anger or irritability during menopause, often called “menopausal rage.” This phenomenon can be particularly distressing and may strain relationships.

Understanding Menopausal Rage:
– Sudden outbursts of anger that feel out of character
– Can strain relationships with family and friends
– Often linked to hormonal imbalances and stress
– May be accompanied by feelings of frustration or being overwhelmed
– Can be triggered by minor annoyances that wouldn’t normally cause such a reaction
– May be exacerbated by sleep deprivation and other menopausal symptoms
Physiological Factors Contributing to Rage:
– Decreased oestrogen levels affecting mood regulation
– Fluctuations in cortisol (stress hormone) levels
– Changes in neurotransmitter function, particularly serotonin
– Activation of the sympathetic nervous system (fight-or-flight response)
Managing Menopausal Rage:
– Practice stress-reduction techniques like deep breathing or counting to ten
– Communicate openly with loved ones about your experiences
– Consider counselling or therapy to develop coping strategies
– Explore hormone replacement therapy with your doctor
– Engage in regular physical exercise to release tension
– Identify and avoid triggers when possible
– Practice assertiveness and healthy communication skills
– Use “time-out” techniques when feeling overwhelmed
– Explore anger management classes or workshops
– Consider mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) programs
Depression and Menopause
While not all women experience depression during menopause, it’s more common during this transition than at other times in a woman’s life. Recognising the signs of depression is crucial for seeking appropriate help.
Factors Contributing to Menopausal Depression:
– Hormonal changes affecting neurotransmitter balance
– Sleep disturbances
– Body image issues related to physical changes
– Life stressors common in midlife (e.g., career changes, relationship shifts)
– History of depression or anxiety
– Genetic predisposition
– Decreased oestrogen’s impact on serotonin production
– Chronic stress and its effect on the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis
Symptoms of Depression to Watch For:
– Persistent sad, anxious, or “empty” mood
– Loss of interest in activities once enjoyed
– Fatigue or decreased energy
– Changes in appetite or weight
– Thoughts of death or suicide
– Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
– Feelings of hopelessness or pessimism
– Physical aches and pains that don’t respond to treatment
– Sleep disturbances (insomnia or hypersomnia)
– Social withdrawal
– Decreased libido

Types of Depression in Menopause:
- Major Depressive Disorder
- Persistent Depressive Disorder (Dysthymia)
- Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) in perimenopause
Treatment Options for Menopausal Depression:
– Psychotherapy, particularly cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT)
– Antidepressant medications (SSRIs, SNRIs)
– Hormone replacement therapy (in some cases)
– Lifestyle changes, including regular exercise and a healthy diet
– Light therapy for seasonal affective disorder
– Mindfulness-based stress reduction techniques
– Electroconvulsive therapy (ECT) for severe, treatment-resistant cases
– Transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS)
– Complementary therapies like acupuncture or herbal supplements (under medical supervision)
Psychosis and Menopause: A Rare but Serious Concern

In rare cases, some women may experience more severe psychological symptoms during menopause, including psychosis. While uncommon, these cases require immediate attention and specialised care.
Important to Note:
– Psychotic symptoms during menopause can occur, they are rare but does happen, you are not alone
– Requires immediate medical attention
– May be linked to dramatic hormonal shifts
– Can include hallucinations, delusions, or severe mood disturbances
– More likely in women with a history of bipolar disorder or schizophrenia
– Can be triggered by severe sleep deprivation or extreme stress
Potential Symptoms of Menopausal Psychosis:
– Hallucinations (seeing, hearing, or feeling things that aren’t there)
– Delusions (false beliefs not based in reality)
– Severe mood swings or mania
– Disorganised thinking or speech
– Catatonic behaviour
– Paranoia or suspiciousness
– Agitation or aggression
– Severe confusion or disorientation
Risk Factors for Menopausal Psychosis:
– Personal or family history of bipolar disorder or schizophrenia
– Severe hormonal fluctuations
– History of postpartum psychosis
– Extreme stress or trauma
– Certain medical conditions or medications
Treatment for Menopausal Psychosis:
– Immediate psychiatric evaluation
– Antipsychotic medications
– Hormone therapy (in some cases)
– Hospitalisation may be necessary for severe cases
– Ongoing therapy and support after acute symptoms subside
– Mood stabilisers if bipolar disorder is suspected
– Electroconvulsive therapy (ECT) in severe cases
– Family therapy to support loved ones and improve understanding
Cognitive Changes: Brain Fog and Memory Issues

Many women report experiencing “brain fog” or memory issues during menopause. While often temporary, these cognitive changes can be frustrating and impact daily life.
Common Cognitive Symptoms:
– Difficulty concentrating
– Forgetfulness
– Trouble finding the right words
– Feeling mentally “sluggish”
– Decreased ability to multitask
– Slower processing speed
– Difficulty with verbal memory
– Challenges with spatial orientation
Factors Contributing to Cognitive Changes:
– Hormonal fluctuations affecting brain function
– Sleep disturbances impacting cognitive performance
– Stress and mood changes affecting concentration
– Normal ageing processes coinciding with menopause
– Decreased oestrogen’s impact on neurotransmitter function
– Changes in brain volume and neural connectivity
Managing Cognitive Changes:
– Engage in regular mental exercises (e.g., puzzles, learning new skills)
– Maintain a healthy diet rich in omega-3 fatty acids and antioxidants
– Get regular physical exercise to improve blood flow to the brain
– Ensure adequate sleep and practice good sleep hygiene
– Use memory aids like lists, reminders, and calendars
– Practice mindfulness to improve focus and concentration
– Consider cognitive training programs or apps
– Explore hormone therapy options with your healthcare provider
– Try supplements like ginkgo biloba or vitamin B complex (under medical supervision)
– Practice stress reduction techniques to improve overall cognitive function
The Role of Hormones in Menopausal Mental Health
Understanding the hormonal changes during menopause is crucial for comprehending the emotional and cognitive symptoms many women experience.
Key Hormonal Players:
– Oestrogen: Affects mood, cognition, and temperature regulation
– Progesterone: Influences sleep and anxiety levels by working on the GABA receptors of the brain
– Testosterone: Impacts libido and energy levels
– Cortisol: Stress hormone that can be affected by menopausal changes
– Thyroid hormones: Can fluctuate during menopause and affect mood
How Hormonal Changes Affect Mental Health:
– Oestrogen decline can lead to mood swings and depression
– Progesterone fluctuations may contribute to anxiety and sleep issues
– Changes in testosterone levels can affect energy and motivation
– Cortisol imbalances can exacerbate stress responses
– Thyroid dysfunction can mimic or exacerbate menopausal symptoms
Oestrogen’s Role in Brain Function:
– Regulates serotonin and norepinephrine levels
– Influences dopamine production and function
– Affects GABA receptors, impacting anxiety levels
– Plays a role in neuroplasticity and neuroprotection
– Influences cognitive functions like memory and attention
Managing Menopausal Emotional Symptoms
There are several effective strategies for managing the emotional symptoms of menopause. A comprehensive approach often yields the best results.
Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)
– Can help balance hormones and reduce symptoms
– Discuss risks and benefits with your doctor
– Available in various forms (pills, patches, gels, etc.)
– May not be suitable for all women, especially those with certain health conditions
– Different types: oestrogen-only, combined oestrogen-progestogen, bioidentical hormones
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
– Helps change negative thought patterns
– Can be particularly effective for anxiety and depression
– Teaches coping skills for managing symptoms
– May be done individually or in group settings
– Often combined with other treatments for best results
Regular Exercise and Balanced Diet
– Exercise releases endorphins, improving mood
– Aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate exercise per week
– A balanced diet supports overall health and well-being
– Consider foods rich in phytoestrogens, which may help balance hormones
– Omega-3 fatty acids may help with mood regulation
– Stay hydrated to help manage hot flushes and mood

Stress-Reduction Techniques
– Mindfulness meditation
– Yoga
– Deep breathing exercises
– Progressive muscle relaxation
– Guided imagery
– Biofeedback
– Journaling or expressive writing
Improving Sleep Habits
– Establish a regular sleep schedule
– Create a cool, comfortable sleeping environment
– Limit caffeine and screen time before bed
– Consider cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia (CBT-I)
– Try relaxation techniques before bedtime
– Consider using a sleep tracking app to identify patterns
Open Communication
– Share your experiences with loved ones
– Join support groups for menopausal women
– Consider couples therapy if relationship issues arise
– Educate family members about menopause to increase understanding
Natural Remedies
– Some women find relief with herbal supplements like black cohosh or evening primrose oil
– Acupuncture may help with certain symptoms
– Always consult with your doctor before starting any supplements
– Consider aromatherapy with essential oils like lavender or chamomile
– Try herbal teas like peppermint or ginger for symptom relief
Medication Options
– Antidepressants, particularly SSRIs, can help with mood and hot flushes
– Anti-anxiety medications may be prescribed for severe anxiety
– Birth control (quadriphasic) pills can help stabilise hormones in perimenopause such as zoely or qlaira
– Gabapentin or pregabalin may be prescribed for certain symptoms
– Discuss potential side effects and interactions with your healthcare provider
Alternative Therapies
– Acupuncture
– Massage therapy
– Reflexology
– Hypnotherapy
– Energy healing practices like Reiki
– Art or music therapy for emotional expression
Lifestyle Adjustments
– Reduce alcohol and caffeine intake
– Quit smoking
– Practice good time management to reduce stress
– Create a supportive home and work environment
– Explore new hobbies or interests to boost mood and self-esteem

Seeking Help for Menopausal Mental Health
If you’re struggling with anxiety, mood swings, or other emotional issues during menopause, don’t hesitate to seek help. Pause and Co Healthcare can offer guidance and treatment options.
When to Seek Professional Help:
– Symptoms interfere with daily life
– You’re experiencing thoughts of self-harm
– Mood changes are severe or persistent
– You feel overwhelmed or unable to cope
– Relationship problems are developing due to emotional symptoms
– Physical symptoms are severe or concerning
– You’re unsure about treatment options or have questions about menopause
Treatment Options:
– Psychotherapy (individual, group, or couples therapy)
– Medication (antidepressants or anti-anxiety medications)
– Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)
– Combination of treatments tailored to your needs
– Alternative therapies like acupuncture or hypnosis
– Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I)
– Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) programs
– Nutritional counselling and supplementation
– Physical therapy for menopause-related joint pain or incontinence

The Importance of Self-Care During Menopause
Self-care is crucial during the menopausal transition. Taking time for yourself can help manage symptoms and improve overall well-being.
Self-Care Strategies:
– Prioritise activities you enjoy
– Set boundaries and learn to say no
– Practice gratitude and positive self-talk
– Engage in regular self-reflection or journaling
– Nurture your relationships and social connections
– Explore new hobbies or interests
– Consider alternative therapies like massage or aromatherapy
– Create a relaxing bedtime routine
– Practice good skincare to address changing skin needs
– Invest in comfortable clothing to manage hot flushes
– Stay intellectually engaged through learning new skills or taking classes
The Impact of Menopause on Relationships
Menopause can significantly affect relationships, particularly intimate partnerships. Open communication and mutual understanding are key.
Common Relationship Challenges:
– Changes in libido and sexual function
– Mood swings affecting interactions
– Partner’s lack of understanding about menopause
– Shifts in family dynamics (e.g., empty nest syndrome)
– Changes in physical appearance affecting self-esteem

Strategies for Maintaining Healthy Relationships:
– Educate your partner about menopause and its effects
– Attend medical appointments together when appropriate
– Explore new forms of intimacy and connection
– Consider couples therapy to improve communication
– Plan regular date nights or shared activities
– Be patient with yourself and your partner
– Discuss changing needs and expectations openly
Menopause in the Workplace
Navigating menopause while managing a career can be challenging. Understanding your rights and options is important.
Workplace Challenges:
– Managing symptoms like hot flushes in professional settings
– Cognitive changes affecting job performance
– Fatigue impacting productivity
– Potential discrimination or lack of understanding from colleagues
Strategies for Managing Menopause at Work:
– Know your rights regarding workplace accommodations
– Communicate with HR about your needs if comfortable
– Create a “menopause-friendly” workspace (e.g., desk fan, water bottle)
– Take regular breaks for self-care
– Consider flexible working arrangements if available
– Educate colleagues and promote a supportive work environment
Long-Term Health Considerations
Menopause marks a significant shift in women’s health, with implications for long-term well-being.
Key Health Considerations:
– Increased risk of osteoporosis
– Changes in cardiovascular health
– Potential increased risk of certain cancers
– Metabolic changes affecting weight and diabetes risk
– Ongoing changes in sexual and urinary health
Preventive Measures:
– Regular health screenings (e.g., bone density scans, mammograms)
– Heart-healthy lifestyle choices
– Weight-bearing exercises for bone health
– Pelvic floor exercises
– Balanced diet rich in calcium and vitamin D
– Regular check-ups with healthcare providers
Embracing the Positive Aspects of Menopause
While menopause presents challenges, it can also be a time of growth and new opportunities.
Positive Aspects to Consider:
– Freedom from menstrual cycles and contraception concerns
– Potential for personal growth and self-discovery
– Opportunity to reassess life goals and priorities
– Increased wisdom and life experience
– Potential for improved relationships as children grow older
– Time to focus on personal health and well-being
Remember:
– You’re not alone in experiencing these symptoms
– Effective treatments are available
– With proper support, you can navigate this transition successfully
– Menopause is a natural phase of life, not an illness
– Every woman’s experience is unique – what works for one may not work for another
– This can be a time of empowerment and positive life changes
Menopause is a significant life change, but with understanding and proper care, you can manage its emotional impacts effectively. Don’t let anxiety, mood swings, or other emotional symptoms control your life – take charge of your menopausal journey today with Pause and Co Healthcare, an Accredited Advanced Member of the British Menopause Society By staying informed, seeking support, and exploring treatment options, you can maintain your emotional well-being and thrive during this important life transition. Remember, menopause can also be a time of personal growth, self-discovery, and renewed focus on your health and well-being. Embrace this new chapter with confidence and optimism.
